Reverse Mortgage or Downsize?
Should You Get a Reverse Mortgage or Downsize Instead in Montgomery County?
A reverse mortgage lets you stay in your home and draw on its equity without monthly payments, but the balance grows over time and reduces what's left for heirs. Downsizing converts that same equity into cash today, often with lower ongoing costs, without leaving a loan behind.
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Marc Cormier, Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES)
Marc Cormier is a Realtor licensed in Maryland (#620443). He holds the Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES) designation along with certifications in divorce real estate, distressed property, international property, residential construction, and luxury home marketing. He has 27 years of experience and close to 1,000 homes sold, serving homeowners throughout Maryland, Virginia, and Washington DC, including Montgomery County, Potomac, Bethesda, Chevy Chase, Rockville, and surrounding communities.
Written by Marc Cormier, Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES).
The numbers behind the decision
Homeowners 62 and older are sitting on a record $14.92 trillion in home equity as of early 2026, but for many, that equity is the only real asset they have. Meanwhile, 28% of homeowners 65 and older were spending more than 30% of their income on housing costs in 2024 — the highest rate of any age group, according to the Joint Center for Housing Studies. That combination is exactly why both reverse mortgages and downsizing exist as options: the equity is real, but it's locked inside the walls.
How the two actually compare
A reverse mortgage keeps you in the home you know, near the community and routines you've built, and it can fund in-home care that lets you age in place — but interest, mortgage insurance, and fees accrue against the loan the entire time, and the balance has to be resolved by you, a spouse, or your heirs eventually, whether that's through sale, refinance, or payoff.
Downsizing takes the equity out in one transaction. You sell the current home, and the proceeds either fund a smaller home or condo outright, get invested for income, or both. Monthly costs typically drop — smaller space, often newer construction with lower maintenance — and there's no loan balance left for anyone to untangle later. The tradeoff is the move itself: packing, relocating, and leaving a long-time home, which is a real cost even when the financial math favors it.
Neither is universally better. A reverse mortgage tends to make more sense when staying in the specific home matters more than maximizing what's passed on, or when health and mobility make a move genuinely impractical. Downsizing tends to make more sense when the home has become more maintenance and cost than the household needs, or when leaving the estate intact for heirs is a priority — worth knowing if you also want to see what a reverse mortgage does to an inherited home before deciding.
Related questions
How much equity do I actually have available if I get a reverse mortgage instead of selling?
Generally a percentage of your home's appraised value that increases with your age and current interest rates — a HUD-approved counselor or lender can run the exact figure, since it isn't a flat percentage.
Is downsizing cheaper than staying in my home with a reverse mortgage?
Often yes on a monthly basis, since a smaller home typically means lower taxes, utilities, and maintenance — but the full comparison depends on your specific numbers, which is exactly what the downsizing calculator below is for.
What happens to a reverse mortgage if I decide to downsize later?
The loan is paid off from the sale proceeds when you sell, the same way a traditional mortgage would be, and any remaining equity is yours.
Can I compare my numbers directly instead of guessing?
Yes — the calculator below estimates your net proceeds from downsizing using your actual home value and costs, so you can weigh it against what a reverse mortgage lender quotes you.
Next Step
Run Your Numbers with the Downsizing Calculator
Estimate your net proceeds from downsizing using your actual home value and costs, then weigh it against what a reverse mortgage lender quotes you.
Run Your Numbers with the Downsizing CalculatorMarc Cormier is a licensed real estate professional with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices PenFed Realty, based in Montgomery County, Maryland. He has 27 years of experience and close to 1,000 homes sold, with a focus on probate, distressed properties, bankruptcy trustee sales, and downsizing for families across Maryland, DC, and Northern Virginia. He is the author of an Amazon best-selling book on probate real estate and holds the SRES (Seniors Real Estate Specialist) designation.
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Whether a reverse mortgage or downsizing makes more sense for you depends on your home, your goals, and your family. Marc can help you weigh the two without pressure.
Marc Cormier, SRES — Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices PenFed Realty — Serving Maryland, Virginia and Washington DC
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